tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-627081175329856970.post2837088587641018643..comments2024-03-29T05:21:11.278+00:00Comments on Ambush Predator: Warning ColourationJuliaMhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07844126589712842477noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-627081175329856970.post-64870230192046597612019-05-21T07:36:35.641+01:002019-05-21T07:36:35.641+01:00"Because we're no longer entitled to simp...<i>"Because we're no longer entitled to simply live our own lives. We're expected to be experts in every trivial, made-up, non-existent condition going."</i><br /><br />Spot on!<br /><br /><i>"It is harder but still possible."</i><br /><br />Hard work is for the birds!<br /><br /><i>"...the idea was that they needed to behave even better than healthy children in order to be socially accepted. Now every child is allowed to be a monster."</i><br /><br />Another good point. <br /><br /><i>"It very frequently not possible to achieve the same margins a 'normal child'. "</i><br /><br />And for those for whom it isn't, maybe a secure environment is required. We used to have those. <br />JuliaMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07844126589712842477noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-627081175329856970.post-20212975536173053852019-05-17T15:33:30.590+01:002019-05-17T15:33:30.590+01:00Dear David. First of all, I salute you. Like I sai...Dear David. First of all, I salute you. Like I said it's not easy. Secondly, I should have been clearer in my comment. With the right support in place from the very beginning an autistic child can achieve the same margins as a 'normal' child. It is extremely hard, but it is possible. But the thing is it must start at the very beginning. The first 3 to 4 years are crucial in child care, learning and development. Unfortunately it has only just come to light that autistic children are not naughty children. I would imagine that you didn't receive a good support system when your son was born. Tell me, what is the support that you have for your son and as a family like now? You have probably researched already but do you think there's enough support? Do let me know. <br /><br />Kind regards <br />Feral. Feralnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-627081175329856970.post-73357297477014691262019-05-16T21:48:51.761+01:002019-05-16T21:48:51.761+01:00feral. I am a father of a 20 year old man with aut...feral. I am a father of a 20 year old man with autism (sometimes referred to as "classic"), adhd and learning difficulties. Learning age maybe 5 or 6. <br />It very frequently not possible to achieve the same margins a 'normal child'. <br />I would dearly love it to be possible.<br />If you please can show me how to do it, it would help my son enormously. It would be literally life changing, What is more we could make countless millions together.<br />David Walkernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-627081175329856970.post-59287511938974767862019-05-16T15:42:45.010+01:002019-05-16T15:42:45.010+01:00When I worked with what were called retarded child...When I worked with what were called retarded children in the early 70s (including classically autistic children ie real deal ) the idea was that they needed to behave even better than healthy children in order to be socially accepted. Now every child is allowed to be a monster.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-627081175329856970.post-64145318742558153212019-05-16T10:51:50.742+01:002019-05-16T10:51:50.742+01:00Have to agree with you. With proper parenting an a...Have to agree with you. With proper parenting an autistic child can achieve the same margins as a 'normal' child. It is harder but still possible. Feralnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-627081175329856970.post-20000745187666373082019-05-16T10:38:13.375+01:002019-05-16T10:38:13.375+01:00Because we're no longer entitled to simply liv...Because we're no longer entitled to simply live our own lives. We're expected to be experts in every trivial, made-up, non-existent condition going.Just Trevorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09978879560514954819noreply@blogger.com