Thursday 21 April 2011

That Definition Of ‘Children’ Slips Again…

Two children were abandoned by their mum and left to live in squalor for up to a year, a court heard.
Good grief!
When the youngsters were discovered, the house was full of mouldy saucepans containing rotten food, half full wine bottles, animal excrement, rotting mattresses stained with animal urine and torn wallpaper. Although it is not known how long the children were left on their own, it could have been going on for up to a year, a court was told.

Outrageous! She should be horsewhipped! And then...

Wait. 'Youngsters'? Just how old were these children?

The teenagers, aged 14 and 15 at the time...


Teenagers? You mean, we aren’t talking three/four-year-olds here?
… were found by ambulance crews in conditions described as “utterly squalid”, while their 42-year-old mother was living 15 minutes away with her boyfriend, the court heard.
I don’t care if she was living 15 miles away, they are old enough to take care of themselves, surely? OK, abandoning them is illegal, she should rightly be castigated for that, but blaming her for the conditions of the house while they are (technically) capable of keeping it – and themselves – clean is not quite cricket.
Judge Richard Price said: “She abandoned her children leaving them quite literally to wallow in their own filth.” Describing the defendant as callous and cruel, he added: “You don’t seem to understand the long term psychological damage you have done to these children. “You cannot have failed to see the mess that the house was in, you couldn’t fail to appreciate how dangerous that was, you couldn’t have failed to appreciate how your children were suffering – what did you do about that? Nothing.”
Indeed. Just as, it seems, these ‘children’ themselves did…nothing.

Maybe they aren’t legally culpable, but (absent any mental retardation) they aren’t totally helpless either.
Chris Stopa, mitigating, said any requests with the children to do something got no response and the defendant had no help from the children’s father. “What she did was distance herself from what was going on at the house because it was too difficult to deal with – that of course shouldn’t happen, she now understands that. She would come back and check what the position was, as it got worse and worse her ability to do anything about it became less and less.”
Absent father, mother with ‘issues’. This is getting better and better. How about drink and/or drugs?
The defendant was suffering with depression and there was a suggestion that she had been drinking a lot.
There we have it!

But that doesn’t explain why a story that seems to be about the utter helplessness and dependency of ‘children’ turns out not to actually be about children as any normal adult would perceive them, does it?

8 comments:

Smoking Hot said...

Sounds like normal everyday student digs to me.

Umbongo said...

" . . there was a suggestion that she had been drinking a lot."

Surely a minimum price/extra tax/total ban on alcohol would solve that problem - well according to this load of tax-sucking alarmists anyway

Captain Haddock said...

"the house was full of mouldy saucepans containing rotten food, half full wine bottles, animal excrement, rotting mattresses stained with animal urine and torn wallpaper" ...

Sounds a bloody sight more up-market than some of the places I've been obliged to live in, whilst on "Ops" ..

Quiet_Man said...

My house would be like that in a day or two if I didn't keep the pressure on my teenage stepson to pull his weight.

Jiks said...

"Won't someone think of the feral youths!!!" doesn't have quite the same ring I guess.

Anonymous said...

Spoken like well to do middle class. So you were so sophisticated at 15 and had such a sound upbringing that you can expect adult behaviour from these teens.

JuliaM said...

"Surely a minimum price/extra tax/total ban on alcohol would solve that problem - well according to this load of tax-sucking alarmists anyway"

When are people going to wake up to the real danger?

"My house would be like that in a day or two if I didn't keep the pressure on my teenage stepson to pull his weight."

Heh!

"Spoken like well to do middle class. So you were so sophisticated at 15 and had such a sound upbringing that you can expect adult behaviour from these teens."

'Well to do middle class'..?

My working-class, born-within-the-sound-of-Bow-Bells grandmother would happily box your ears for the suggestion that cleanliness is the preserve of her 'betters'.

In fact, it was a societal shame in many solidly-working class areas if your home was not spotlessly clean (with fewer possessions, it probably didn't take long!) and your door step not freshly scrubbed each day...

And why should anyone not expect 'adult behaviour' from teens? Aren't they 'in training' to be adults?

Macheath said...

'why should anyone not expect 'adult behaviour' from teens? '

JuliaM, not only is your point about working-class hygiene standards spot-on, the writer of that dig at the 'well to do middle class' might like to consider that it's not so many years since the luxury of an extended childhood was the exclusive preserve of the affluent.

My uncle joined the Merchant Navy at 14 and became a much-needed breadwinner for the family, while his cousins went to work in local factories and offices at 16.

I don't know what you'd call that if it's not adult behaviour.

w/v patio - where I'm heading now for breakfast